Ep #63 Why you don’t have what you want 

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Have you ever looked at someone who seems to be further ahead and you had the thought:

“There must be a secret to their success.”

We think that there must be something they’re doing that we aren’t. There must be something they have that we don’t.

The hard truth is…

There is a secret…

There is something they are doing that you are not.

And it’s this…

They DO what they say they are going to do.

The one thing they have that sets them apart is their integrity.

Their word matters. If they say they are going to do something…they do.

It really is as simple as that.

Now, let’s get real for a minute. Saying you are going to do something is not the same as actually doing it.

When we say we are going to do a specific task at 9am the following morning, our brain will naturally offer us a million other things we can do when it’s time to do what we planned.

Your brain wiill give you all the reasons why the thing you committed to or planned isn’t important in this moment.

Your brain will always offer you more fun, exciting, “important” things to spend your time on.

Sometimes, it will even convince you that the original plan is now a bad idea!

Changing your plans, or breaking your own promise to yourself (and even to others) might seem insignificant (and might even sometimes be necessary…)

But your brain is keeping score.

The more you break your own trust…the less you will trust yourself to do what you say you are going to do.

The less you trust yourself, the less likely you are to even go for the thing you want because your brain will know that you don’t follow through.

You're teaching yourself to doubt yourself. 

This is an unintentional way of using the most powerful tool we have available to ourselves. 

It’s time to get back into the drivers seat.

Where are you breaking your word? Where are you living out of integrity with who you want to be? Are you committing to things and then changing plans because you don’t feel like following through? Do you create a plan and then abandon it? 

The good news is, you can always get back into integrity with yourself.

Start today.

Do what you say you are going to do.

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